I am confident around people that I know really well… but I find it hard to comunicate with people that I don’t know or are a lot older than me, and I see some people who are just brilliant and talking and always manage to find something to talk about were as I find that quite hard at times sometimes in fear of saying something stupid I supose. But this could have something to do with my self confidence how can I build it up and become confident in talking to all people?? thanks x
well just put your self out there and act like its no big deal and wat ever you do do NOT show people that you are scared or worried. every morning when you wake up tell your self……."i am going to make the day great!" " or i am going to do something new and interesting today" or simply"i AM who i want to be!"
#1 by Paul P on August 23rd, 2009
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Recognize your insecurities.Remember that no one is perfect. Identify your successes.
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#2 by christopher c on August 23rd, 2009
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well thats easy just smile and picture people in there underwear.
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#3 by Abbie*,x on August 23rd, 2009
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i’mm likee thiss tooh x
thee best thing to do is if they tork to yooh laugh at their jokes keep your head up (adult find you rude if you do not look at them while torken)
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#4 by Jason L on August 23rd, 2009
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Im working on the same problem myself. I believe it just comes with practice. The more you push yourself out of your comfort zone the more comfortable you will be. Just start off slow by just making eye contact to a random stranger you walk by and say hi. Really no big deal. Practice, practice, practice.
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#5 by AsHALAY on August 23rd, 2009
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well just put your self out there and act like its no big deal and wat ever you do do NOT show people that you are scared or worried. every morning when you wake up tell your self……."i am going to make the day great!" " or i am going to do something new and interesting today" or simply"i AM who i want to be!"
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good luck daisy!! :]
#6 by crimthann on August 23rd, 2009
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Easiest way to build your self confidence would be to look into bohemia. It always does wonders with making a girl or guy feel pretty.
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#7 by White lighting on August 23rd, 2009
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People who are reasonably happy, self confident, and fun to be around are good people to emulate. And, usually a great source of life skills. Utilize what they share with you, in terms of advice. Take care.
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#8 by Petrol Head on August 23rd, 2009
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I am exactly the same but as I am the same I have no answer to your question. Sorry :-s
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#9 by patrickwanis@ymail.com on August 23rd, 2009
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Self-confidence is tied into self-esteem, and self-esteem is basically, “how much you like yourself.” The level and extent to which you like yourself depends on how significant you feel and how capable you feel.
Please go through the hypnosis CD, Supreme Self-confidence at my site http://patrickwanis.com/SelfConfidence.asp
This is a powerful and transformational CD that works at a subconscious level to help you overcome anxiety, worry and self-doubt.
I worked as a consultant to large corporations such as Fox Television, SeaWorld and Busch Gardens. From 1998 to 2000, I was the Clinical Hypnotherapist and Relationship expert on America Talks Health,
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