Self-confidence is an attitude. With it, you believe that within reason, you are able to do whatever you want to do. The root of confidence lies within the unconscious, so hypnosis is a great tool for building confidence and control over your life.
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#1 by alanden on September 14th, 2009
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This is some good …
This is some good advice!
However, hypnosis is a tool that can help one access the inner part of themselves that is causing the fear and worry, and rapidly exchange those feelings for ones that provide peace, confidence, and security.
#2 by Tbaldwin1971 on September 14th, 2009
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Maybe sometimes …
Maybe sometimes just to act confident is the way. Sort of pretend in your head you are an actor playing the part of a confident person. From my own experience it seems to me that nearly everyone has hang ups about themselves but put a facade on so that everyone else cannot see how they feel. Just try and do what everyone else does and act the part. The longer you do it and eventually you will become at ease with it and then you will relax more.
Lifes too short to worry.We will look back and …
#3 by alanden on September 14th, 2009
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Yes, go to my site …
Yes, go to my site and look at my “A Mind Like A Sponge!” program. It will help you increase concentration, retention, and recall as well as overcome test anxiety.
#4 by chinmaygarg05 on September 14th, 2009
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I have exams coming …
I have exams coming after 3 days and I have already prepared but I still fear of getting less marks because whenever I have tried hard and worked hard I never get the required result. Could you help me in this matter!!
#5 by bigsteve0999 on September 14th, 2009
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how ?
how did u …
how ?
how did u become so confident ?
#6 by ThatGurlKeira on September 14th, 2009
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i had the same …
i had the same problem i was bullied for 3 years straight when i was in primary school it got so bad that we had to move but when i started at my new school i decided to change my attitude towards ppl and my apearance it did wonders for me and i made many friends and got quite popular the only advice i can give you is to just look at yourself in the mirror and find all ur great parts and when u start feeling unconfident think of the great stuff and block out the bad ..hope this helped !!!
#7 by alanden on September 14th, 2009
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Take a look at my …
Take a look at my response to 654321nicko above about making mental movies.
#8 by alanden on September 14th, 2009
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Make a mental movie …
Make a mental movie where you see yourself at camp and having fun. Then get inside of the movie (put the camera inside of your head) and see the same things from the point of view of actually being there, and allow yourself to feel the pleasure of making new friends.
#9 by 654321nicko on September 14th, 2009
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Hi
we have a school …
Hi
we have a school camp coming up in 3 weeks we have to prepare for it now, i really dont like camps we went on a camp 2 years ago for 3 nights and it was terrible now we are going for 5 nights and i really dont wanna go, im in grade 9 and dont have many friends, any suggestions would be appreciated
thanks
#10 by alanden on September 14th, 2009
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Before we can do …
Before we can do anything we have to “see” ourselves doing it. So practice visualizing yourself in social settings feeling and behaving the way that you would like to. There are a lot of techniques for self-confidence available on the CDs that are on my website.
#11 by supersaiyan3gohan on September 14th, 2009
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Hi
but i lack the confidence because of what used to happen 
it’s annoying because my good friend tells me i have a great personality that people will love, i just need the confidence to be able to hang around with new people like at break time any suggestions specific to that?
I’ve been …
Hi
I’ve been looking for something like this
I used to get bullied a couple of years ago, but now i’m at a different school and have dramatically changed my appearance i really want to find some good friends
#12 by michaelguk on September 14th, 2009
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I have an enormous …
I have an enormous feeling of wellbeing, of excitement that I’ve never felt before. Suddenly I feel as though I could do anything and I can be successful. I’ve already started approaching social situations with absolute ease and it’s really a great feeling. I don’t feel I need self approval as much. It’s just I feel like the world is my oyster and I really look forward to the future I can imagine what it can bring! : D
#13 by alanden on September 14th, 2009
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Hi Michael, You’re …
Hi Michael, You’re welcome. But can you tell me how?
#14 by michaelguk on September 14th, 2009
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Thank you Alan you …
Thank you Alan you changed my life. I am indebted to you forever.
#15 by michaelguk on September 14th, 2009
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Thank you Alan you …
Thank you Alan you changed my life. I am indebted to you forever.
#16 by robb1031 on September 14th, 2009
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Here is 3 tips my …
Here is 3 tips my brother gave me when I was a kid maybe 14 1. If a girl intimidates you, picture her taking a wet, smelly, runny (The Hershey Squirt Type) this will bring her down a few pegs. 2. Should you get the nads to talk to her end the conversation short in your next few meetings get her number and call a few days later. 3. To check to see how much she is into you, suggest she would look better with a different hair style and see if she changes it.
#17 by alanden on September 14th, 2009
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Yes it will.
Yes it will.
#18 by alanden on September 14th, 2009
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That is correct. …
That is correct. Confidence, or the lack of it is created by our thoughts. Change your thoughts, and your confidence level changes.
#19 by TuRdSandwitch18 on September 14th, 2009
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will this work with …
will this work with giving me the confidence 2 sing in front of people aswell?
#20 by TuRdSandwitch18 on September 14th, 2009
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so basically u can …
so basically u can b confident wether u hav a logical reason 2 or not? sounds good 2 me
#21 by alanden on September 14th, 2009
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Obviously your lack …
Obviously your lack of confidence is tied to your weight issue. I wish that I had four magic words to fix your poblem, but in reality, the closest I can come to the four magic words is, “Go to my website.”
#22 by chatanwarrior on September 14th, 2009
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honestly i have no …
honestly i have no confidence around women, im funny n sweet n artistic but i cant get past being fat, which im working on but its veeeerrryyy slow, n i would like a gf sooner rather than later
#23 by alanden on September 14th, 2009
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Hi Smudge,
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Hi Smudge,
Confidence is a state of mind which originates in our computer, the unconscious mind.
Your computer has been programmed in a negative direction. You can program it in a positive direction using hypnosis and NLP. I recommend that you go to my website and take a look at my ‘Self-Confidence!’ program. It has worked for thousands of people, and it will work for you.
#24 by 1990smudge on September 14th, 2009
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… hello… erm, …
… hello… erm, i hav had an issue with confidence and self esteem for the last 7 years… it was really torn away from me with 4 years of constant bullying. I am training to become an actor and dancer but my confidence is so low that i am subconsciously limiting myself to what i can do… i always feel like im deluding myslef and that everyone is lying to me when they say anything about my dancing. i dont know, im just really fed up that i have no confidence…
#25 by alanden on September 14th, 2009
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I have a program …
I have a program specifically for building up your self-confidence & self-esteem available on my website. It’s called “Self-Confidence!”