i think i’ve lost my confidence and self esteem for the past few months and i’m quite unhappy with myself. i used to be really happy with who i am and how i am and was real proud.since i’ve been breaking out really badly i dont feel pretty anymore. i feel that when people look at me they look at my pimples and how ugly i am.and it effected my lifestyle.i stop going out and i stop taking care of myself. i keep feeling unpretty and that i’m not good enough at anything. i feel scared to act like my old crazy self because i feel ugly and i think that people will think i’m a wierdo. i dont want attentions cos of my pimples.i act quite humble and i HATE it for not being able to be confident. please help me, i dont know what to do anymore.
Look, it doesn’t matter whether you have pimples or not. Everyone already knows you’re pretty, and everyone suffers with pimples, it’s a part of life. I bet that everyone thinks you are acting strange because you became quiet. Just be yourself, it doesn’t matter how you look, it’s the inside that counts. Besides, I bet everyone’s wondering where the Party-Princess has gone!
#1 by Blue Fairy on October 28th, 2009
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Look, it doesn’t matter whether you have pimples or not. Everyone already knows you’re pretty, and everyone suffers with pimples, it’s a part of life. I bet that everyone thinks you are acting strange because you became quiet. Just be yourself, it doesn’t matter how you look, it’s the inside that counts. Besides, I bet everyone’s wondering where the Party-Princess has gone!
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#2 by sk97us on October 28th, 2009
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All the more you should take care of yourself. Who else would boost your ego but you. Happiness should come from within. Come on so you’re saying that the only thing that makes you happy is when you don’t have pimples (it’s all physical) there’s should be more to you than just plain looks. First you have to be proud of yourself not just based on your physical appearance be proud of what you are, what you do and just the overall you. Watch people will react towards the way you see and treat yourself. Be proud of who you are and the real you will shine and everyone will see that.
Believe in yourself…that same confident person months ago is still you and it’s up to you if you want to be that person again.
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#3 by mabthewolfqueen on October 28th, 2009
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Have you ever heard the saying it is what is on the inside that counts yeah well trash that and listen. I have known some pretty people who be their very actions stank. and I have known some people who were not so pretty but were so charismatic they blew me away. What was the difference? they were just so comfortable with them selves and sure of who there are that it just drove me to them. Stop worrying about a pimple. If you give it little thought and just enjoy life so will those around you. I’m not saying be "Mary Sunshine" I am saying be free to be you and screw what others think
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#4 by beetlejuice49423 on October 28th, 2009
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Make a tape in your voice of positive affirmations and listen to it twice (or more) per day. Eventually your subconcious will start believing what you are telling yourself and your actions, behaviors, and feelings of confidence will return. If I can come back from the literal edge of hell on these tapes, you can overcome a slight backstep in your confidence…
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#5 by Crystal C on October 28th, 2009
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It’s hard to feel good when you don’t feel you look good. But you have to look "deep" inside yourself and know that you are good/strong and have high self esteem regardless of what is going on. You said since you’ve been breaking out you stop taking care of yourself that is the time to take even better care of yourself. You need to see a dermatologist if possible. I see so many commercials for Pro Active. Please realize that beauty comes from inside. (So have fun and be yourself) You are not ugly. People have so many of their own problems they don’t focus that much on others.
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#6 by Mark n on October 28th, 2009
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So, all of that because you have pimples!?..ok, think of some other people who have lot worse things going on with their bodies, face, hair etc and can not do anything about them then you will see how small your problem is compared.
try to positively do something about them like find medication/lotions etc to get rid of them but if you can not, then just be yourself and be happy and shine through with your personality…
Being scared and having a low confidence will show through your personality/behavior and it will not be attractive..it will work against you…
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#7 by Barking Lunchbox on October 28th, 2009
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Do esteemable things.
And be aware that doing so is just a prerequisite to being a decent human being, for being able to look at the mirror and smile at what you see, without feeling doing so makes you superior to all the people that don’t bother.
Harder than it sounds, I know. But that’s what you should try to do.
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#8 by lifestyle g on October 28th, 2009
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I am going to give you a simple tip by Maxwell maltz.
Maxwell maltz used to be cosmetic surgeon who noticed that his patients even after undergoing surgery doesn’t feel good about their body. He researched and found out these people didn’t had good self image.
Whenever they think of themselves, they’ll see the old, ugly kind…
You’ll become what you feel or how you think… like they say you better watch out what you say, it might become truth.
This technique is by Dr Maxwell… Its called Visualization. You should visualize on daily basis. Visualize how you want to be. Visual the kind of person you want to be and see(and feel) yourself changing into that kind of person.
You need to visualize in vivid detail. its like experiencing a reality in visualization.
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